Getting feedback on your pull request is sometimes hard. It’s easy to take it personal, especially when it’s code you care about. I strive to only focus on this one question:
Will the suggested change or comment make the product better?
If so, it’s good feedback.
That being said, I believe we should all try to be kind, in life as in pull request. Thus, I take heed to be hard on the problem, soft on the people. Always.